Described as “the ultimate cosmopolitan” by members of our very own Global 2000 class, Skye Maes has accumulated a vast and plentiful wealth of travel, backpacking and study knowledge from many diverse cultures over the past decade. In 2006 she embarked upon two very contrasting study abroad experiences; the first in South Africa on intercampus exchange at Monash University, and the second at Leiden University in The Netherlands. An independent, confident solo traveller, Skye offers profoundly valuable, first hand, mature, intelligent practical advice, especially powerful in equipping other solo female adventure seekers with information necessary to ensure a safe and memorable overseas experience- you wont find these handy hints in any Safari Brochure!
When recounting tales about her time studying abroad Skye demonstrates and emphasises the crucial importance of an open-minded attitude and ability to adapt to circumstances that may not align with original expectations (much of which may be based on cultural stereotypes disseminated through politics and the media) of what the country, people or culture would be like. Thinking that students attending Monash South Africa would be driven, serious academics, Skye was surprised to find that they “had a love of life unlike I have ever seen”, and quickly realised that her “good grades” objective would have to be temporarily put to the wayside.
Culturally, though Skye saw no evidence of traditional gender discriminatory customs such as men entering rooms before women, and women avoiding eye contact with senior community members as a sign of respect, she does note that although women do have equal rights in South Africa, she “often saw African girls and women deferring to males”. As such, this continuing dominance of males in the patriarchal society is a social reality that must be taken into consideration when interacting socially within South African communities.
The general gist of Skye’s recommended approach could be summarised by ‘adopting a different, laid-back kind of attitude, and be prepared to renegotiate your expectations’ in accordance to your surrounding environment. For example, in one conversation Skye told of how it is common practice for many women in South Africa drive straight through red lights at traffic intersections in order to avoid stopping their car and opening themselves to risk of car jacking, mugging. Whilst in Australia, this is illegal and we would no doubt expect to receive a tidy fine, in South Africa the practical importance of safety outweighs institutional impositions, a revelation that can only be passed on through inside, personal experience.
In keeping with this theme of safety, Skye’s most poignant advice came from personal experience when she stressed: “whatever you do get South African private health insurance…the Australian SA embassy will most likely say comprehensive travel insurance is enough, believe me it is not!”
“How do I know? I was in a car accident with four other students. Two of us- both Australians- had to go to hospital however I was the only one who could get into a good hospital as I had SA health insurance. The other Australian didn’t. Because I didn’t want to let her go alone, I went in to the public hospital with her. BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY – IN NO WAY SHAPE OR FORM DO YOU WANT TO HAVE TO USE SA PUBLIC HOSPITAL!”
This traumatic experience also revealed bureaucratic anomalies in the international embassy system to Skye, crucial information which she was then able to pass on to other travellers:
“The other Australian got her visa through the Australian SA embassy. I got my visa from the London SA embassy and they were a nightmare, I had to go back 8 times and wait for 2 hours to be seen each time. [However] One of their many requirements was SA private health insurance… You would think that SA embassies around the world would have the same requirements for the same nationalities, they don’t.”
Ultimately, Skye’s varying study abroad experiences demonstrate that whatever our destination, the only thing that study abroad guarantees is that we will be challenged, changed and surprised by who and what awaits us….